Iibhola zothando zizilwanyana ezidlala kakhulu kwaye ezingazinzanga, zihlala zifuna izinto ezithile ukuze zizonwabise kwaye zingenaxinzelelo.
Phakathi kweethoyi onokuthi uzenzele ngokwakho ukubhabha wothando lwakho kukudlala:
Imihlobiso yamatye: kule nto, khangela amatye afanelekileyo kwisilwanyana esincinci, ngokukhethekileyo ezinkulu.
Thatha ucingo ubeke amatye amile okwejingi kwaye kwindawo ephakathi ubeke intonga ukuze banyuke.
Iintambo: iintaka zothando zihlala zithande ukuxhoma iintambo ukuze uzitshabalalise kwaye ukhwele kuzo.
Unokubeka intambo ngamatye eziphelweni ukuze badibane apho ngaphandle kokutyibilika.
Umthi omncinci: ungabeka umthi kwikheyiji yalo engathathi ndawo ininzi kodwa enokuba ineziqhamo okanye imbewu engenatyhefu, baya kukhwela apho badlale ngendlela yendalo.
Iifayile kunye nezinto zokudlala ezenziwe ngomthi: le yeyona ndlela ibalaseleyo yeebhandi zothando, kuba apho baya kuba nakho ukukrola nokudlala kwinto engabachaphazeliyo kwaye eya kuhlala ixesha elide.
Ukujinga: Iinyoni ezininzi zothando ziyakonwabela ukujiya usiya kwelinye icala ujikeleza.
Nangona okwangoku kubalulekile ukuba into yokudlala iyamelana, kuba ukuba uyibeka phezulu kwaye isilwanyana siwile sinokuzenzakalisa.
Ukongeza kwiithoyi, kubalulekile ukuba uzame ukudlala kunye nothando lwentaka ngqo ukuze wandise umanyano phakathi kwakho nesilwanyana kwaye usincede siphazamiseke.